Social Media and Judgement

I was contemplating today whether to deactivate my Facebook account.  I have come across some negative stuff, as we all do.  It isn't the people complaining that triggered me.  It is the people complaining about people complaining that did.  I came to the conclusion though that you can't take anything personally.  This is their stuff to deal with.  If people are on here complaining about mundane things and that gets to you then you can simply tune them out and focus inward instead of outward.  I appreciate the people complaining and now I also appreciate the people complaining about the people complaining.  See you are still complaining just like them. 

You give something focus you will invite it in.  So even though you don't want it in your life - you attract it into your life and become it, all because you focused on it.  I appreciate all people - complaining or not, it gives us a sense of who they are and an ability to read what kind of person they are. I have blocked some people's feeds if I have found them to be too negative or simply full of things of the flesh.   You have the ability to be proactive and block out what you don't like.  Then of course there are complaints about people posting only positive and happy pictures or a fake reality. People posting only happy pictures and feeds might want to just focus on the positive and remember the happy moments. What everyone shares is their personal agenda and not for you to judge.  The ones with the fake reality well they have their own issues to deal with. Your judgement of them is certainly no help.  Instead of judging you can simply just observe or inspire people by diving deep and having an understanding.  

People are all on different levels and paths some dive deep, some internalize and come off as surface deep.  We are all here and we are all one remember that.  We have all had these emotions at one point or another.  Wanting to share our lives, wanting not to for the fear of - being judged.  We are all here in this earth plane together and we can all have the ability to judge less and think deeply about what people are going through.


- Natasha F.

- Protect your energy

Yes it is important to check on our friends and help them out if they need it.  However it is even more important to protect ourselves from getting sucked into a never ending situation.  Some people can be in their situation so deep and can only see the negative no matter what kind of help is presented to them.  What you need to know is that this is their path and not yours.  They need to experience it themselves, their own dark road ahead.  After darkness there is light if they learn their lessons.  If not of course the lessons will keep repeating themselves until they do. If you find yourself very approachable, the type of person that people open their hearts to remember that you are a Lightworker.  You are working with light so people working on a low vibration are naturally attracted to you.  Please proceed with caution when you notice this happening.  You need to protect your energy and not let it dim your light.  This goes for your family members and children as well.  I have had some difficulties dealing with this as a mother because I want the best for my child but I have to remember it is her path and not mine.  I am merely a guiding aide.  To let go of that you have to let go of your ego mentality.  It is very freeing once you can master it but with focused intention anything is possible.

As a Lightworker you can help by merely guiding them or asking them to look within themselves.  Never force unwanted information onto them remember this is their path and they need to go through this themselves in order to grow from it.   You know you have been sucked in if you feel their situation consuming you and you feel too tired to focus on your own growth and being in the present moment.  Never gossip about them this attracts the negative.  Wish them good intentions and if you find that you cannot do this simply detach and think on it.  We need to come from our heart space always.  In the end all of this doesn't matter, only love does.